I guess its time to stop wallowing in self pity and seriously consider how I can change. A few things I need to do.
At present its just these. There'll be more in times to come.
Lots of stuff have been happening these few days. Its mostly band stuff that's getting to me. A whole bunch of people are threatening to quit if changes are not implemented.
Why is this happening? Is it really because band sucks? I don't think so. It is because people are unhappy with each other. Maybe a tinge of jealousy. But this is all because of relations between people. And a big problem of communication.
How can we stop this from happening? It all boils down to understanding of each other. What do I mean by understanding? Its not just what some people like, what some people dislike. Understanding is putting oneself into the other person's shoe and feeling the problems that the person faces, the pressure he/she is under, the jobs he/she got to do. And its not just the leaders who needs to be understood. Leaders also need to understand their members to know who they are leading and how to lead them.